Accelerate to Love | Dr. Debra Holland | Steven Guerrro

About the Book

At the beginning of a relationship, a man sees a woman like a shiny new car--beautiful, vibrant, fun, and thrilling to drive. But gradually, the excitement of acquisition runs down. The "sweet ride" becomes just a car—a means of transportation—taken for granted.

Sounds similar to a relationship, doesn't it?

A man's inability or unwillingness to be thoughtful, helpful, appreciative, and romantic are among the leading factors contributing to unhappy marriages and possibly to divorce.

But this doesn't have to happen.

The same knowledge and care men give to their cars also applies to their relationships. Preventive maintenance is critical for cars and women alike. If a woman's needs and desires aren't met, maintained, and serviced on a regular basis, she, too, can perform poorly and eventually break down.

It's not that a man isn't capable of focusing on and meeting his partner's needs. At one time, he courted her. When they were dating, he made her a priority. He studied her likes and dislikes, and arranged dates he knew she'd enjoy. He stood ready and willing to help her no matter what the task, looking forward to the reward of her appreciation. He was so wonderful that she fell in love with him. Then, somewhere along the line, he curtailed his loving gestures, and her dissatisfaction set in.

The encouraging fact is that marital happiness can be increased with the right application of effort.

Most men already have this kind of focus and discipline in other areas of their lives, such as sports, investing, hobbies, technology, and business goals. Yet many men put the needs of their relationship last on their interest list, sabotaging their marriages.

Women want men who are sensitive to their feelings and more romantic. The majority of men weren't raised with these skills. They need some coaching to bring them up to speed. Accelerate to Love is the roadmap to successful, loving relationships.

In reading this book and implementing the exercises, the reader makes a choice to improve his life, and the life of the woman he loves. We help him by taking the guesswork out of pleasing his special woman.

We equip men with an easy to use manual that allows them to learn and remember the things to do to prevent the most common relationship problems from occurring and promote ways of making their partners feel special. In Accelerate to Love, we provide detailed questionnaires, so men can personalize their relationship manual by filling in the blanks.

Many men will experience immediate improvement in their relationships. Others, whose wives and girlfriends have suffered from years of neglect and hurt, might not see positive results until they've done more work on their relationship engines. Patience and perseverance are the keys to a thriving partnership.

We use proven research studies, lists, sample scenarios, questionnaires, and real testimonies from our past clients to help inspire men to develop their own successful relationship manual.

We speak to men in a language they can identify with, in terms they understand. By using cars and auto racing analogies, we allow them to remain in their comfort zone, while learning concepts in a fun, easy way.

Humor is another great tool of the teaching trade. In our book, men will have fun learning how to inspire and encourage the women they love to better love them, resulting in a rewarding relationship ride.

We include sections for the woman to fill out. This way, the reader knows he has the correct statistics about the woman in his life. Once the reader has gathered the information, we'll keep him tooling down the road of happiness by giving him numerous ideas for how to use his relationship manual to create daily loving gestures, consistent easy-to-do good deeds, and some fun, romantic special-occasion planning sure to keep his woman's heart rate at a strong RPM.

Women are often more willing to fulfill the needs and desires of a man who's devoted to providing her what she needs and desires. A woman who is pleased by her man romantically is more apt to please him sexually.

We give men concrete and creative examples of how to best use the information they'll possess when they complete the book. When the reader concludes Accelerate to Love, he'll know his way around the woman he loves, like a master mechanic knows his way around the automobile in which he specializes.

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